Friday, October 29, 2010

33 weeks... 7 to go

I have a few minutes to come up for air from work, so I figured I would do a post. Life is SO busy lately! Part of me wants to hurry and get to December so this can all be "over" and the other half wants to scream "I NEED MORE TIME!!!"


Work is insane. We're going full speed ahead in Bon Jovi land. We announced our 2011 tour dates on Wednesday (which meant I was up by 2:30AM to assist with the European announcement... and I was back up at 6 when we announced North America). Today our Greatest Hits album had it's first release (Germany) and we have 5 more release dates to go. Then there's all of the events, concerts, pre-sales, promotions, contests, TV appearances and award shows between now and the end of November. It's a wild, crazy profession but it's so rewarding and I love it! Even if I am exhausted and running on caffeine and Butterfinger bars.


Steven's been really busy himself. He has several major design projects at work and last night (I really need to brag about this one) he found out he's been hired to produce a full length album of Flaming Lips songs as lullabies. He's been working on getting this gig for several months... turning in sample demos and corresponding with the label that puts out these very fun and exciting rock albums for babies. I'm looking forward to putting Peanut to sleep to some of his daddy's lullabies. He has already made some amazing lullabies of my favorite Hanson and Muse songs so these new tracks will add to Peanut's Sleepy Time Playlist. Congratulations babe, I am so proud of you!


I promised pictures from my baby shower here in Nashville, so here they are!


On October 9th my sister, Lindsey, and Steven's cousin, Jessica, hosted a baby shower for me at Steven's parents house. It was a really beautiful day and as I thanked the room of women for coming I almost choked up from being so grateful they are each in my life.


Kristin, Jamie and 'Little" Shay- friends from Belmont!

Me and Sarah, both 30 weeks pregnant!

The hostesses and me: Jessica, Me, Lindsey

Peanut's great-grandmothers! Mama Joyce and Nana

Peanut's cousins: Jessica, Leslie (who is due in February with Peanut's newest cousin) holding Kennedy, and Brooke

From left: Andrea, me, Jenn

From left: Steven's Great-Aunt Joyce, my sister Lindsey, Liz, Brooke, and Joy

Me with the little booties Aunt Joyce made for Peanut. He's going to be so cute in these!

Me and Brooke, Nashville's best kept jazz singing secret!
Looking around a room filled with my family, Steven's family, industry friends, college friends, new friends, music friends..... I felt so loved. I am so thankful that our son gets to grow up with all of these amazing women in his life!


Last week Steven and I began our "Baby Classes." We have taken an Infant Care class, a Breastfeeding class and the first of 6 Childbirth classes. We also have the "Vanderbilt New Beginnings" class in November, which tells us what to expect when we are at the hospital and gives us a tour of the floor we'll be on. Yes we are indeed learning a lot, as there is a lot to learn.


Also last week Peanut's nursery furniture came in. Steven successfully assembled the crib and rocking chair. On Wednesday of this week he set out to conquer the dresser/changing table. He got all of the pieces out of the box then realized they sent us the wrong one!!! What a pain. I'm really looking forward to getting the room completely set up and putting all of Peanut's tiny clothes away in drawers (right now they are stuffed in a Rubbermaid container... you've never seen so many clothes!) The dining room will continue to look like a war zone until we get that room organized... bleh. Until then here are some cute pics of the process so far:


Steven assembling the crib

Deep in thought...

All done! He did a great job!

Crash's baby doll is modeling how the crib will look with a baby in it!
I'll end the post with one last picture. This is my dad and me at Babies R Us when we bought Peanut's (or "Ex Mo" as Dad calls him) motorcycle jacket!


Note to self: horizontal stripes and pregnancy don't work well together

Wednesday, October 20, 2010

Photo-Rama!

Sorry for the delay in posts! I have been putting off the next post until I could get all of the pictures from the past two weekends. I want to put photos from my Nashville baby shower and family visits all together in one post. In the meantime, here are some photos of what we've been doing lately.



Steven and I found this little motorcycle jacket several months ago while shopping. At the time the store only had ones for 3 year olds. While shopping with my dad this weekend we found out they come in infant sizes! We bought one sized 12 months, so be prepared to see little Peanut rocking this amazing jacket next Winter! I mean, really- is there anything cuter than this?! He'll look just like Daddy. It will be a LONG time before I let him get near Steven's motorcycle though!


This is the swing that Grandmommy and Papa B (Steven's parents) gave to Peanut. Precious!


On Sunday after my dad and Cammie hit the road we went to Lowe's. Here's what our cart looked like. Can you guess what we planned to do?!



Here is the room before ("The Guest Room")


Last night Steven set to work transforming the green walls into baby blue!


We still need to do some touch ups and the trim, but here's how the room looked this morning. I love how the color turned out! It matches the crib bedding we picked out. Soon "The Guest Room" will be fully transformed to "nursery." Amazing!

Our nursery furniture was ordered this weekend and they called today to say it is in. We'll have the room completed before too long. Sometimes I still can't believe this is really happening! We feel so blessed. God is so good!


This weekend I am headed to Indianapolis for my friend Sarah's baby shower. She was here two weeks ago for my shower so now it's time to celebrate her and her soon-to-be born baby girl! Sarah and I are due the same week (I'm Dec 15th and she is the 19th) so this has been a very special time for us to share together! I'm looking forward to showering her with love, just as she did to me two weeks ago!


Sarah and me at 30 weeks
Love, love, love.

Thursday, October 7, 2010

Home improvements



Yesterday was the 30 week mark! In just 10 weeks Steven and I should have our little bundle in our arms, rather than where he currently resides- in my belly, snuggled up again one side in a tight little ball. According to our emails from BabyCenter.com Baby Peanut is coming along in his lung development and eyesight. Of course he's growing like a weed as well. He continues to be highly active and bouncy!

As for me, I'm still feeling good but I'm definitely feeling more stiff and it's hard to sit for more than an hour at a time. My lower back hurts and I can't sleep without a pillow propping up my baby belly. I kind of roll out of bed, rather than sit straight up and have to be careful about doing too much physical activity in a day. It's fine though, nothing that I can't handle! This makes for an excellent segway into how we've been spending our days lately....

Instead of taking things down a few notches we've decided to go from 50 to 1000 in one week's time. Smart, right? Let's begin with the unpredictable.

Right after my last post Steven and Colin asked to drive my car to Chicago so they could go see Roger Waters. The show was amazing (maybe I can get Steven to do a blog about the show....) but while in Chicago a hotel valet decided it would be fun to drive my black car down a white concrete pole in the hotel parking garage. Somehow neither of the guys noticed the damage and drove my car back to Nashville without a clue. Once they were home I noticed the damage immediately even in the pitch black night because, well, it's my car and I know how it's supposed to look! After getting nothing but nasty attitudes from the valet company and cluelessness from the hotel I decided to turn the situation over to insurance. Isn't that what I pay them for each month? Apparently not. Last Monday I spent hours on the phone with Progressive and they fought me each step of the way. 

Agent: well did you see where they parked the car?
Me: Noooo, it's valet. They drive it away and park it for you (duh)
Agent: well how do you KNOW they parked it by a pole?
Me: Because of the dent and 2 foot scrape down the side of my car!!!!!

Long story short, they ended up telling me that I needed to take the car to get fixed FIRST and at that time they would "try" to go after the valet company.  I said, "look, I don't have the money for this. I have a baby coming in a few weeks and I can't just go drop a thousand bucks to fix damages I didn't even do for the off-beat chance you guys might actually help me out and do something. So please just cancel my claim."

Well, there it was. "The B-Word." Apparently mentioning you are having a baby means something to the stubborn and often unfair world of car insurance. Suddenly the tone changed and it was "oh when are you due? Is it a boy or a girl?" Then it became "let me speak with my manager and see what we can do."

They called back and told me to take my car for an estimate and they'd send me a check for the damages. They also promised not to raise my premium. Then they congratulated me again on my pregnancy and closed out my claim. Ummm... what just happened here? I was left feeling somewhat dumbfounded but I won't ask questions. I can't say this makes me feel warm and fuzzy about Progressive Insurance but it is a lesson to all of you out there: when facing insurance companies, just tell them you're pregnant!

So after the car fiasco, we decided to tackle house project #2: getting rid of our bedroom carpet. The carpet in our room has never been lovely but after Crash had a freak out in 2009 over 4th of July fireworks and tore it to shreds we started saving money to get it replaced.

Bad dog!

We thought we coud just refinish the hardwood floors underneath but once the furniture was all moved and we could actually take a real look we realized there was only about 80% hardwoods and the remaining 20% was sub-flooring.

The Great Destroyer, some nasty carpet and some sub-flooring

FAIL!

We were in a bit of a time crunch so we decided to install new carpet in that room. I love what we picked out! It's called Lemon Custard and looks beautiful.

The bed was still being put back together, which explains it's messiness

While waiting for the new carpet we figured, what the heck? Let's go ahead and tackle house project #3: new appliances in the kitchen. Since moving in to our house 4 years ago I have hated our stove with the fire of a thousand suns. Only 2 of the burners worked and the oven consistently heated far beyond what we set it for. Since we are looking to move sometime next year we decided a while back that when we replaced the stove we'd buy a new refrigerator so they would match. So we did! And here they are.



My smart husband had the brilliant idea of putting the old fridge in our garage so now we have extra fridge and freezer space for storage. Can anyone here say "boiled peanuts all year 'round??"

So yeah, we have been very, very busy. But all three of our home improvement projects are now complete! This will make it much easier to put the house on the market next year in the event that the perfect house shows up and we need to sell quickly.

That's all for now- love to you all!